tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57793205887618397372012-02-02T22:54:44.046-05:00Real life, straight unscripted Which 4 some of us is hell. If truth and violence scares U Then this stuff ain't 4 U. In my mind I give U tribulations large and small The streets are grimy, cash is king And young girls take a fall. Flox chillin in the sunburbs Sucking on a sliver spoon Pretend this shyt don't happen? But 4 urban soldiers living on the front lines every day I speak your truth Cuz real's the only way.It's an urban state of mind Not no bullshit CNN.Tough-Lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02163795184689056949noreply@blogger.comBlogger871100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5779320588761839737.post-18507089067980391192012-02-02T22:54:00.000-05:002012-02-02T22:54:44.051-05:00

Happy Groundhog Day, friends! Super-cute Punxsutawney Phil emerged from his burrow and saw his shadow, and that means we’re stuck with six more weeks of winter. THANKS, PHIL!!!! If he weren’t so adorable, we’d be pretty mad at him. 2012 marks the 126th year of Phil’s weather predictions. Some reports place his accuracy at a disappointing 39 percent, which makes him the single most

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Hiya Blogaholics! Blogging has become a serious outlet for me over the past year. Actually its a virtual dumping ground. I am compelled to blog about meaningless stuff no one cares about.  Are you addicted to blogging? Do you get cold sweats when you are away from a keyboard for more than a few hours? Does panic set in if a day goes by and you are unable to post? Do you freak out when your

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  What is the most powerful emotion…?

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  You can’t let things consume you, because if you think about things too long your a** will certainly be on some psycho ish. Here are a few examples of things that you can’t worry too much about because if you do you’ll never leave your Plucking house.(Or possibly find yourself in a padded room somewhere.) Making new friends: I’m sure that many of us have that friend who has owed you

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I think the perfect human begin would be half male and half female In order to be effective in the world, a woman needs some masculine qualities, and by the same token , a man who adopts feminine qualities will be a better boss, a better businessman, and a better father and husband. Pretty Bold statement huh? (No harm intended) Do I have you thinking yet? Over 200 hundred years ago the French

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This is one of my favorite male groups, but I NEVER heard this track before. True Man offers True Love. I listened to the song about 5 times before I decided to post it. How many times have we (male or females) messed up what we have, looking outside our boundaries? Most of the time their right there in front of our face. Ladies Are we ready for a True Man? (I am.)Gentleman are you willing

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Amber Rose Rocks Face Tattoo  Amber Rose was spotted rocking a Mike Tyson inspired temporary facial tattoo. What do you think…Love it or Hate it?

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A monster breakfast which weighs the same as a small child and could potentially kill diners is attracting criticism from angry health campaigners...The Kidz Breakfast at Jesters Diner in Great Yarmouth, Norfolk, includes 12 rashers of bacon, 12 sausages and six eggs and weighs on average 9lb - 1lb 5oz more than the average newborn baby. Health experts are demanding its removal from the menu and

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It looks like 50 Cent has a lot riding on the Super Bowl. lol he accepted a bet on Twitter that means that if the Giants lose the Super Bowl he will publish a picture of his penis on the internet. O_o The deal was made by a Twitterer named @MyBesetAssets. "Lets bet. If the Giants lose the Superbowl, u must post ur d*ck on the twitter. If they win, I'll post my boobs & face on here. Bet?" 50

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Last week, Oklahoma State Senator Ralph Shortey introduced a bill that would ban "the manufacture or sale of food or products which use aborted human fetuses." But which foods or products use aborted human fetuses? Let's investigate. lol Ralph Shortey is an utter moron whose incompetent attempts to ban stem cell-derived medicine reveal his all-encompassing idiocy, nor to tell you that the

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The U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) rolled out a new set of guidelines regarding public school lunches today. The rules, which constitute the first major changes to the school lunch program in over fifteen years, are part of the Healthy, Hunger-Free Kids Act of 2010, championed by Michelle Obama. A summary posted on the official USDA blog outlines the regulations' intent to:  Guarantee

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Google announced today a major overhaul of its privacy policies, and everyone on the Internet shrugged and continued what they were doing. Haha, just playin'—people are freaking out. Effective March 1, the company will merge most of its over 70 separate privacy policies into one master policy. "That's cool," you might think to yourself. "I hate clutter." What this actually means for you is that

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What's in a name? The department, which registers births, recently released a list of disallowed names from the past decade that run the gamut from the unlikely to the inexplicable, the website stuff.co.nz reported. While no names are banned outright, according to deputy registrar-general Ross McPherson they can't be more than 100 characters long, use an unearned title or be offensive to the

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O_O

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There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.  I don't wan you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to

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You had a lot of crooks tryna steal your heart Never really had luck, couldn’t never figure out How to love How to love You had a lot of moments that didn’t last forever Now you in the corner tryna put it together How to love How to love For a second you were here Why you over there? Its hard not to stare, the way you moving your body Like you never had a love Never had a love When you was just

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1. The HEAUX: From Basketball Wives to Hoopz to video models to Kim Kardashian to SNITCHIN GROUPIES. It seems like every other day in 2011 there were HEAUX and former HEAUX (Shouts to Adrienne Bosh) getting new and FRESH ways to WIN. 2011 is gonna be remembered as the year that HEAUX won!! 2. Shaunie O'Neil: After PILFERING Shaq for more than $20M. Shaunie flipped the money into the VERY

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The DRAMA on the show Love And Hip Hop is reaching NEW HIGHS. You'll recall that on Sunday night, Erica Mena got into a HAIR PULLING match with Kimbella, over some SILLINESS!!! Well it turns out that there was MORE to the story.  According to a TOP behind the scenes SNITCH, Erica is still ANGRY with Kimbella, and feels that she stole the man who TOOK HER VIRGINITY - rapper FABOLOUS. Yes, Emily's

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Weve heard of putting Christmas lights on your house . . but on your TRUCK???

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Conrad Murray was convicted Monday of involuntary manslaughter in the drug-overdose death of singer Michael Jackson after a jury deliberated for two days. Superior Court Judge Michael Pastor handed the case to the seven-man, five-woman jury Thursday after closing arguments by prosecutor David Walgren and lead defense lawyer Ed Chernoff. Over nearly six weeks of testimony, jurors heard from

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If BET were to ever take a stab at copying MTV’s The Inferno the first episode of the reality competition should include a challenge involving consuming a McRib and washing it down with a grape flavored Four Loko before completing a 500 yard dash.  Team Chunk you’ve been put on notice. At face value, the sandwich contains just pork, onions, and pickle slices slathered in barbecue sauce and laid

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Get More: Love And Hip Hop  Who needs a morning cup of Joe to kick their digestive system into high gear when the preview for Love and Hip Hop 2 now exists? I know because I sharted myself around the 34 seconds mark upon hearing “My name is Kimbella and I’m a model, an actress, diva and everything else.” Martin and Malcolm didn’t die for this. There are no words to describe the supertrailer

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A Parent sees a son through  so many ups and downs, it's true,  Through all the years until he's finally grown.  It starts with tender lullabies,  Then school, then proms--the time just flies...  And far too soon he's off and on his own.  His future holds so much in store,  And nothing's like it was before,  The change is sometimes hard to comprehend...  Son, My world's a wondrous place because

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The use of standardized test scores as a proxy for actual intelligence is a lazy, misguided, classist and culturally discriminatory tactic that makes the jobs of policymakers easier at the expense of the future of our children. That said, kids these days are more jaw-droppingly stupid than ever before. We're getting it from all sides.  America as a nation just got its SAT scores, and ugh...

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A Pennsylvania woman found a five-pound package of marijuana on her doorstep this week. The same thing happened to a nearby elderly couple. What should you do if you receive a large package of weed? Let us help you. As Gothamist rightly points out,the unbidden-parcels-of-pot thing is now, officially, a trend: Not only did it happen to those folks in Pennsylvania, but a dentist's office in New

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 Taylor left specific instructions that she wanted to "be late for her own funeral, a family rep said.  You've got to hand it to that old ball-buster, Liz Taylor she knew how to make an entrance She was a Hollywood original to the end. Elizabeth Taylor was laid to rest Thursday at Forest Lawn Memorial Park in Glendale, Calif., in a small, private funeral attended by friends and family

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for the first time since 1993, the Moon is going to be full tonight  at almost the exact same time it's closest to earth. So if you've got livestock you need to sacrifice, now's the time to do it! The Moon will be less than one hour away from perigree (the fancy science word for "point on the Moon's elliptical orbit at which it's closest to earth") tonight the same day that a Full Moon is

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Every year the Economist Intelligence Unit looks at all the cities in the world and ranks their livability based on stability, health care, culture and environment, education, and infrastructure. Which city came out on top? For the fourth straight year, it's Vancouver, with its nice climate, crime-free streets, and universal healthcare. Most of the cities in the top 10 were Canadian or Australian

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The British National Health Service because he was sent to a dietitian and not an eating disorder specialist.

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Ahem Bullchit....Yesterday, Mayor Bloomberg was fairly nonchalant about Sunday's blizzard, which has left New York City caked in twenty inches of snow: "The world has not come to an end," he said. "A lot of snow everyplace. It was a very heavy snowfall. We're cleaning it up." But now that he's realized the roads are littered with snowed-in vehicles, buses still aren't running, and

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Hang Half Chairs For Cool Clothes Storage  . IKEA got the hook up.

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To grow old means merely to age. To grow up means to become better, wiser, and more intelligent in dealing with the same or similar problems. You can grow old, or you can grow up. It is really up to you. Physically, every one of us in the course of time reaches his limit, but mentally and emotionally and spiritually no one can tell where the bounds are. There are some who pray nightly, “Oh God,

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No, the Georgia baby peach isn't the love child of her once soul mate Big Papa. Kim Zolciak and her boyfriend, Atlanta Falcons defensive end Kroy Biermann, are getting a reality check in unplanned blessings.   The newest little Zolciak will be Kim's third child, joining daughters, Brielle, 13, and Ariana, 9, from a previous marriage.  The Google Me singer is three months into her pregnancy

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 It is when you are willing to go to a level with someone that you have never been before. The very rare time you compromise to be who you need to be while being what someone else wants you to be. You know what I never really get deep into this subject, but its real. Its unexplainable to a solid definition. To me I believe we all love whoever but within a reason. Hate is too strong of a word for

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Ever wonder just how hot your balls get under your laptop? "Within 10 or 15 minutes their scrotal temperature is already above what we consider safe," says one doctor. Turns out that cooking your testicles is also bad for reproducing.

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I don't go around fire expectin' not to sweat, Been to hell and back, I can show you vouchers. Confidence is a stain I can't wipe off, I search, but never find. Hurt, but never cry. I work and forever tired. I seen nights full of pain, days of the same, And haters at an all-time high. Everybody got a hater like a f*n iPod. Stuck in the hood, like they poured cement on me. Money spread like germs,

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The Government Reform Committee passed legislation designed to to credit the postal service between 50 billion and 75 billion pension assets that had been unfairly allocated by the office of Personnel Management.The Hr bill was introduced on July 15th.  The Hr bill is meat to help the Postal Service recoup the tens of billions of dollars in surplus funds it has accumulated in the Civil service 

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The coming of the future, If you are trying to get your shine one this winter, check out this iced out G-Shock.  It's full of 14 karats of Black Diamonds.  They Asking $900 or better in certain spots.

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This has been a very busy yet productive month for me The Post Office is going threw some transitions nation wide. Therefore they wont be hiring no more regulars for a while, which opens the door to knew options for the few postal employees at the bottom of the barrel like myself they are offering 60 postal employees driver training of course it benefits the post office at the end they are

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Mom went to the Oncology clinic this afternoon for her regular schedule visit. She has not been feeling at her best these past few days. I thought maybe the heat was taking a toll on her, because she is oxygen Dependant but as she left the doctors office today she found out different. Last October she had start taking IV chemo to prevent the Cancer from spreading in her bones, but they never

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Real estate numbers are in from the first quarter of 2010, and oh boy are they good: 31% of home sales so far this year were foreclosures!According to Reuters, the total number of home foreclosures in 2009 was up over 1,100 percent from 2006, and 2,500 percent from 2005. There's Never Been a Better Time to Buy a Foreclosed Home

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Kathy, a 41-year-old woman from Michigan, recently shot herself in the shoulder hoping that emergency doctors would also have to fix a different shoulder injury while they were working on her. They didn't. Pain makes people crazy (Source)

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Be the kind of women that when your feet hit the floor each morning the devil says "Oh crap, She's up!" Sister Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the ones who don't just because you can. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it kiss slowly Forgive quickly. Go...

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Just writing this and thanking you for being the God you have been to me. You have protected me from the enemies you have sheltered me from the storms and in the midst of trouble you gave me peace. Even when i didn't deserve blessings you rained them on me anyway. Even when i forgot to love you you loved me anyway. And even when I didn't believe in me you believed in me. You are merciful,

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Today was another nice day I so enjoy my weekends. My mom is doing well, I look at here these days and just smile am smiling at how joyful she can be in such a server time in her life. I compare now to 5 months ago, when she was crying every minute.  I use to say "Ma" and she would start crying. She was an emotional wreck back then. I would be to if all these complications came down on me at once

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The whole Jay-Z is a Lucifer-loving Freemason and an agent of the Illuminati meme continues to proliferate and now there’s even a diss track…by a pissed off Christian rapper! Listen as dude calls out Hov for his alleged satanic swagger and fondness

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From Wyclef Jean: Haiti needs our help. If you're in the US and want to help with relief efforts, you can text 'Yele' to 501501 to donate $5. IF your elsewhere in the world, you can still help by donating at www.yele.org. Please send your positive energy and thoughts to those affected by the quake. My son school is collecting worn/gently used clothing , socks, and shoes to send over there every

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I have not been here in a while. But am still around. I have been helping my mom out and working a lot of hours. Which leaves me with less time to do my favorite thing.. What is that you may ask, Well blogging of course what else lol I was reading some on-line material about using oxygen at home. my mom has been using at home oxygen since she was discharged from the hospitial on October 14th.

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Mom got her Home health aide. The aide started Friday and my mom will have her six hours a day, five days a week. Now my mom moved into Brooklyn so she could be closer to me and plus all her treatments are in Brooklyn. Everything is getting better. My mom gave me the low down on her knew helper as soon as I walked in her door Friday evening...I said sheesh ma what are you an investigator...lol,

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Mom got her first Chemotherapy (intravenous) IV, treatment yesterday she arrived at 8am and and was finish by 1:30pm. They ran a blood test at first to make sure her kidneys could handle the treatment and what dosage should be given. The nurse says she has to be given the treatment for the rest of her live. That is not cool, but she has to do what she has to do and  this is the outcome when one

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This post consist of somethings that I have read on-line and what the doctors has told me. I may break it up into two pieces. Since my mom has been released from the hospital on the 14th, she had her first Oncologist visit yesterday. I was able to get her in and out because she was on oxygen and the staff they had yesterday actually gave a *Bleep*. She is still taking the hormone pill call

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A spot in the lung usually refers to a small, discrete, rounded nodule visible on a routine chest x�ray. Spots may range in size from that of a dime to a silver dollar; because their shape is rounded they are often referred to as coin nodules. Coin nodules are never a normal finding, although they may be benign or malignant. Benign lesions (another word for abnormal spots or coin nodules) are

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Most symptoms of benign respiratory disease are self�limiting, that is, they last no more than a few days and then go away. Symptoms lasting longer than a few days should probably be investigated, especially if they limit you in any way. Certain symptoms should be investigated immediately. These include: Severe or crushing chest pain. This may reflect a heart attack or other serious

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It's one thing to see a lung disease that was already diagnosed, but another to see changes that no one predicted were there. The doctors are saying they see spots on my mothers Lungs, now I know for a fact that is not the medical terminology or diagnostics name for spotting on the lungs. So of course I went home to do my Google homework. I found out that spotting on the lungs can be

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I was with my mom most of the weekend she was suppose to come home on Saturday but after one of the doctor's assistant physicians drew some blood to check her oxygen level they realized that her oxygen level was below normal. (Normal being 89+, my mom oxygen level was @ 55).The only way they were going to release her from the hospital was if she had an oxygen tank going home with her.The blood

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The doctors are not sure what is what with my mom and that is scary. I was got the pathology report to her today. She has been in the hospital since Friday, right before I left she had an appointment to see the lung specialist her breathing was so out of control that they admitted her into the ER immediately. The night before I left i went to see her i brought her some oatmeal rain cookie and

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My ride are the ones procrastinating now, I was suppose to be gone from 3:30pm (lol) Today my mom had her follow up with the lung specialist. She had a 1pm appointment I could not make that with her because I had to pick my son from school. I got my aunt to go with her when my mom got to the hospital they put her on the air machine right away ( I really don't know the medical terminology for

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Going Google crazy last night paid off for me this morning, shew. I just got off the phone with the doctor that did the surgery on my mom in 2000, (another blessing is that the doctor himself answered the phone), What are the chances of that happening?! His receptionist happen to step out the office for a few so I got a chance to speak to him directly. Anywho, he said he may be able to help

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  I have been working on getting my mom a social Worker and I may need to request a referral to a mental health professional. Since we found out the hospital closed two years ago in which she had the surgery done in 2000 she has been falling apart on me. She is crying more often and, she is just not the same. Her weight has dropped at least 40lbs in the last 5 months. It's just getting to be to

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The term, metastatic, describes a cancer that has spread to distant organs from the original tumor site. Metastatic breast cancer is the most advanced stage (stage IV) of breast cancer. Cancer cells have spread past the breast and axillary (underarm) lymph nodes to other areas of the body where they continue to grow and multiply. Breast cancer has the potential to spread to almost any region of

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What a difference a day makes. I am OK, I just have a lot of things going on I pop in my Boyz II Men CD today and I keep hitting the rewind button on this particular song (check title) the lyrics are on point right now, I `needed a piece of mind. There is so much going on in life and it's all happening so fast. One day everything is all good and the next day it can feel like you just got hit with

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What a difference a day makes. I am OK, I just have a lot of things going on I pop in my Boyz II Men CD today and I keep hitting the rewind button on this particular song (check title) the lyrics are on point right now, I `needed a piece of mind. There is so much going on in life and it's all happening so fast. One day everything is all good and the next day it can feel like you just got hit with

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This here ain't no romance. It's an urban state of mind Real life, straight unscripted Which 4 some of us is hell. If truth and violence scares U Then this stuff ain't 4 U. But someone's out there hurting Cuz they know these words are true. In my mind I give U tribulations large and small The streets are grimy, cash is king And young girls take a fall. Flox chillin in the sunburbs Sucking on a

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I felt a little sad last night when I heard about Patrick Swayze death due to Pancreatic Cancer he was only 57years old I consider that pretty young to die. I will tell you why it made me sad besides the fact that I really enjoyed two of the actors movies one is his 1987 film Dirty Dancing and the other His biggest hit came in 1990, when he starred in Ghost with Whoopie Goldberg and Demi Moore.

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she was feeling the song and forgot she wasn't on that song...lol

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Mr. West stormed the stage during Taylor Swift's acceptance speech to express his opinion on who should have won. MTV Shows

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You know what, This is the continuation to what I wrote on Sunday. Life has a way of knocking you on your arse. Once I heard a radio host ask a good question," Why do bad things happen to good people? During my life I asked that question a lot.. Then Reality kicks in; My sons Bishop once told a story about Adam and Eve When God made Adam he instructed him to do three things work, cultivate,

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Sometimes when you don’t know where to turn you have to turn to what you know. I know my chair my records my music the only problem is when the songs over your right back to where you stared.

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Just to let everyone know, I'm no fan of dance music at all. I generally find this type of music to get on my nerves. I like Reggae, Yes, ELP, Hip Hop, Pop type of stuff, so Enigma should be totally out of my league, but then why on Earth do I love it? Because it has some of the most creepy atmosphere I have ever heard on any album. The idea of blending a genre I can't stand (dance) with a very

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Yay me, I just found out the release date for "Precious": Based on the Novel Push by Sapphire in theaters November 12. 2009.

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Pedestrians clogged the Brooklyn Bridge as the power outage brought life to a standstill. Exactly 6 year and four day ago NYC had the Blackout it was a scary day. I was working as a receptionist In Midtown Manhattan. I had left work exactly one hour before things got hectic. I remember my mom telling me she had to walk like 15 miles to get home. She didn't reach home until 10 pm that night. A lot

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My weekend turned out to be fairly decent. Saturday started of pretty slow I didn't expect to go know where when I woke up that morning, but I got a phone call at 3pm from my crazy cousin telling me to come to Chucky Cheese to celebrate her youngest daughters birthday party. I would have went but she waited until 2 hours before she was ready to leave, to invite me out. A bitch like me is not

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This is to funny to me.Sorry Dave i had to put you on blast. My friend is a single parent, he calls me up and says, "Nessa something is wrong with this ground beef," so I say "what happen to it?" He says, "it's slimy" I said 'well throw it out. I asked him "did you buy it like that?" " He said "no" then he continues to say "all I did was wash it." ~Blank Stare~ I was cracking up. I said "Dave you

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The Cosby's kid is back on T.V. About 2 days ago I was watching The Cosby show on TVLand with my son, I was wondering what ever happened to Vanessa. Beginning Aug. 15, former 'Cosby Show' and 'A Different World' stars Tempestt Bledsoe and Darryl M. Bell will be featured in the network's all-new reality series, 'House husbands of Hollywood.'

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Urrgggh... Back in the days that symbol to the left (in some cases to the right:) was the most secure position one can hold in the government. (paid vacation, benefits, sick days annual leave etc..) No Caucasian men or women wanted this job back then either because it consist of "hard labor". Since early this year when the recession started hitting hard, there have been more Caucasian applying

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I thought I was going to get a break today, to my surprise starting from 4am-5pm I received a total of seventy five (75) calls from, yes you guessed it "The Psycho". She is so immature for here age. Today I pinched her nerve (fuck it I was bored myself) I mentioned her ghetto children names Papoose and Gizmo. Isn't Gizmo the head gremlin from the movie "Gremlins". Lawrd please forgive me. LOL

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TGIF. Have a great weekend. The summer is coming to a end, I didn't go to Maui this summer. Maybe it's would be better to go there in the winter. I think the climate stays the same all year round in Hawaii because there across the equator. They have a beach in Hawaii, called the Black Sand beach, It is beautiful. Black sand beach in Maui, Hawaii. Villa in Hawaii Did you go on

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The wicked witch a.k.a, (the 30 yr old Physco) keeps calling all night, early in the morning, she woke me up yesterday morning and for work this morning. Kudos for my knew alarm clock. I am not going to waste this post on her. I am confining in my blog about this "emotional blowout" that am going threw. I don't know how much more I can take, i'll tell you a little bit about it. At the end of

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She's at it again, the 30 years old Physco. This morning I let the answering machine pick up one of her many calls and she leave a lame ass message saying she is looking for Denise (mine you her name is Deniece), he gave her my number. Yeah right. Not only is she lame but she is a liar to. This stated at 6 o'clock this morning (mind you I went to bed after 4 this morning) and I just received

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Well I said my prayers tonight, I dosed off for about an hour and I was wide awake again. Am watching American Pie: Band Camp in hopes of falling asleep, but in reality I am wide awake and worried. I am worried because at 11am Monday morning my mom called and told me she was in the ER. I was aware of the fact that she was going to the doctor Monday morning, but I wasn't expecting her to go to

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Did it ever cross your mind that "they" put them lottery tickets here just to tease us!? My boyfriend spends money every single day playing lottery. Granted he has hit a few times in the past, the most 5G's. But I find it so weird how much money one person can spend on Lottery in a year. Lottery is like an addiction, I remember one time my man and I was taking a road trip to VA(Virgina) and he

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No the title is not referring to me :-) This is just a way for me to clear my mind. I was up last night messing around here on Blogger, I decided to sign off a little after 4am, I settled in my bed around 5am. My phone starts to ring the person hangs up. I have caller ID but at that time in the morning I wasn't calling anybody back, I figured it might be someone coming in from a party and might

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I recently started suffering with Insomnia this year. It has been kicking my ass, most days I go to bed at 7am and wake up buy 12pm and stay up until 7am the next morning. I don't know what is happening. Maybe stress, the relationship, am just not feeling like myself. It's amazing how things can change when one is not happy with themselves. Know that somebody loves you ---{--@

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I want to touch this topic again because I felt like I generalized the word "Judgmental". In this day and age people judge everything and everyone, I don't think it's necessary to judge. As Gods children we all were created different, no man or women thinks the same. My favorite saying in life is "Only God Can Judge me", and I think that's the realist shit I have ever heard. Judging whether

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I was debating on whether or not to open this page. I set up my blogger account back in May of this year, and I haven't been back here since. I use to love to blog, I felt when you blog you can be who you want and talk about what you want, that was up until I got the rude awaken of Judgmental Bloggers I call them judgmental bloggers because they will go all out there way to tell you how wrong you

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